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GRONMORMON
Joined: 24 Dec 2007
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 Posted: Wed Mar 05, 2008 3:34 pm Post subject: Why won't he commit after 4 years? |
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| Just give it time..Don't talk about it too much(it may scare him-like you said) lolSince he's in bands and such he probably doesnt want to be held down at home by the "wifey" b/c he wants to be a "rockstar"..Just support everything he's doing (band-wise) and then he'll know that you're the girl for him. No problem :} |
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GroupPRN
Joined: 16 Jul 2007
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Location: USA
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| Posted: Wed Mar 05, 2008 3:53 pm Post subject: Why won't he commit after 4 years? |
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| When the time is right for him he'll do it... But you gota giv him that time... Try not to bring up getting married or anything like that... And I bet if hes thinking about it he'll be the one to bring it up to you.... |
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Groom2Be0306
Joined: 24 Jan 2008
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| Posted: Wed Mar 05, 2008 4:11 pm Post subject: Why won't he commit after 4 years? |
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| he is not ready to commit,wake up girl he is 23yrs old....../// |
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groupviagra
Joined: 02 Aug 2007
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| Posted: Wed Mar 05, 2008 4:30 pm Post subject: Why won't he commit after 4 years? |
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| If he will not committ now, he never will, my friend dated a guy for six years, no sign of committment from him, she talked to him at the sixth year and he did not want to marry her, so they broke up and now they are married to different people.He was getting the milk for free all of those years, and was to weak of a man to tell her that he did not want to get married.I think your man is the same way, confront him, and when you do get ready to hear the truth.He probably has no backbone and does not want to tell you the truth, time for you to show him you have one and ask him!!!! |
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groussyirriteusa
Joined: 18 Jan 2008
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Location: Somalia
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| Posted: Wed Mar 05, 2008 4:48 pm Post subject: Why won't he commit after 4 years? |
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| If he hasn't made a commitment by now he never will. You are being used. |
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Groppelia
Joined: 24 Sep 2007
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| Posted: Wed Mar 05, 2008 5:07 pm Post subject: Why won't he commit after 4 years? |
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| Calm down, it's fine. Guys tend to be more patient about this than girls. Usually it takes them a while to decide if this is really there love. Also, what could be happening is that he already has a ring or is planning on getting one, and is just planning for it to be a surprise. He might be waiting for the right moment, or he might be making sure this is his one true love. Be patient, and remember, DO NOT BREAK UP WITH HIM!!! |
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grivlins
Joined: 05 Aug 2007
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| Posted: Wed Mar 05, 2008 5:25 pm Post subject: Why won't he commit after 4 years? |
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| get this book:he's just not that into you.i'm sorry, but when guys like you, they show it, because they don't want to lose you. when guys like you, they marry you after 4 whole fucking years. come on now! you're young and you have your whole life ahead of you to find someone that you will love and that will love you, someone that will respect you and want to commit to you. because you deserve marriage, and you deserve to be happy. |
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GritandCandy
Joined: 21 Jan 2008
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| Posted: Wed Mar 05, 2008 5:44 pm Post subject: Why won't he commit after 4 years? |
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| Wake up............he is just not that into YOU. He does not want to get married! Hey when you play house together and he gets everything for free...why would he want to marry you???Wake up wake up wake up! If you are easy.......well then you get this kind of treatment. If he loved you....he would marry you. He does not want to marry you. |
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GroupPRN
Joined: 16 Jul 2007
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Location: USA
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| Posted: Wed Mar 05, 2008 6:02 pm Post subject: Why won't he commit after 4 years? |
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| You're only 21...You've got time. Just enjoy being with him and when he feels like he's ready for the next step he'll start in that direction. If you pressure him you'll push him away. |
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Groom2Be0827
Joined: 28 Feb 2008
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| Posted: Wed Mar 05, 2008 6:21 pm Post subject: Why won't he commit after 4 years? |
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| Why should he, he has everything already. You are married already without commitment. |
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GroulpPoupe
Joined: 01 Nov 2007
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Location: Greenland
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| Posted: Wed Mar 05, 2008 6:39 pm Post subject: Why won't he commit after 4 years? |
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| He is still an adolescent, he wants to tour and spends all his money on music, so his mind is not on marriage and all the responsibilities that will mean, like a steady job, kids, and going home every night. He really is too young and immature to make the leap to marriage, because he wants to be free should the chance come to go on tour.He may not want to be with other girls, but that doesn't mean he is ready for committment, he may not be for years. You won't convince him by talking marriage when you are crying and upset, that is something that should be discussed when you are in a loving mood and having a great time. If marriage is what you want take steps to look for a good candidate, get your own apartment even if you still date this guy. That will allow both of you to test being apart and see how you feel about it, you may even meet someone else. It may be years before he is ready for marriage, but being apart might also make him see what he is going to lose. |
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Groom2Be0306
Joined: 24 Jan 2008
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| Posted: Wed Mar 05, 2008 6:58 pm Post subject: Why won't he commit after 4 years? |
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| It looks like he is still very young and wants to have fun. I'm sure he loves you but maybe he is not sure if this is what he wants for the rest of his life. I know how you feel, but try not to presure him and enjoy your life. Maybe when he will see that you are not talking about marriage and you are hanging out more with your friends and doing things that you enjoy he might realize what he has in you. Presuring will just scare him away even more, belive me I was there too! I would give him some time without talking about it and if he doesnt make his mind in a year or two,it's probably time to move on! |
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Gromeron
Joined: 12 May 2007
Posts: 26
Location: All
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| Posted: Wed Mar 05, 2008 7:16 pm Post subject: Why won't he commit after 4 years? |
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| tell him to commit or leave,you are far to easygoing,believe me no man will commit until you force it. he is keeping his options open and making a fool of you,GO GET HIM,nail him down ,i bet he's too slippery. |
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GritandCandy
Joined: 21 Jan 2008
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| Posted: Wed Mar 05, 2008 7:35 pm Post subject: Why won't he commit after 4 years? |
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| If I may .... I know this won't mean anything as you feel wounded.... but REST ASSURED... If he wasn't happy that much .. he would of jumped at the ring.. thing... I bought a lady of my life.. part of a mountain once!!!!! and made a very fair settlement w/ my ex. and the very day that I gave away something a million, she decided to meet someone new...Atleast, you're not out that kind of money.. I loved her with a passon I shall never feel again.... so in store for you are many... R E L A X !! |
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Groppelia
Joined: 24 Sep 2007
Posts: 28
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| Posted: Wed Mar 05, 2008 7:53 pm Post subject: Why won't he commit after 4 years? |
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| Erin P, Baby you should not have to put your life on hold for someone else. Find a guy who is mature and wants the same things as you ! Find a matue Christian gentleman and live happily ever after ! Love Kenny |
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