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joes_yojo
Joined: 06 Jun 2007
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Location: Australy
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 Posted: Fri Feb 22, 2008 9:54 am Post subject: Wife not wearing ring? |
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| My wife recently got a job with a big pharmaceutical company as an intern after her pharmacy school. She often jokes to me how she has admirers at work.I also noticed she doesnt wear her ring anymore. She says she lost both wedding bands.Her girlfriend also made a comment when we were out one day having drinks and teasingly jockingly kinda conversationaly said " yeah i noticed girlfriend stopped wearing her rings as soon as she got that job...." .Did my wife genuinely loose both rings? There is no suspicious activity on her cell phone either.PLus she comes home straight after work |
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julenaDTran
Joined: 27 Dec 2007
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| Posted: Fri Feb 22, 2008 10:21 am Post subject: Wife not wearing ring? |
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| most men and women do not wear rings in these fields.. and if they do then they were bands. go buy her a band and see what happens |
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jsied96
Joined: 27 Dec 2007
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| Posted: Fri Feb 22, 2008 10:49 am Post subject: Wife not wearing ring? |
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| go buy her a small little gold band to put on her finger for the time being...test it out... |
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KaraP
Joined: 24 Jan 2008
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| Posted: Fri Feb 22, 2008 11:16 am Post subject: Wife not wearing ring? |
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| Maybe your wife is a little spacey and the friend was just having fun with it? If that is your only suspicion, let it go. You will know if she is cheating or not with time. If you do buy her another wedding band, make sure to put a rider on your homeowners' insurance policy so if she loses it again, it will be covered. |
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juliejuliejulie1751
Joined: 25 Nov 2007
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| Posted: Fri Feb 22, 2008 11:44 am Post subject: Wife not wearing ring? |
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| You are probably worried about nothing. Now if she started coming home real late on a regular basis, then yes, she is cheating on you. |
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joellemoe
Joined: 22 Nov 2007
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| Posted: Fri Feb 22, 2008 12:11 pm Post subject: Wife not wearing ring? |
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| Buy her another ring, if she lost them she should have them replaced. If she then doesnt wear it you might like to ask her some questions. Until then give her the benefit of the doubt. |
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junkman4994
Joined: 02 Dec 2007
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| Posted: Fri Feb 22, 2008 12:39 pm Post subject: Wife not wearing ring? |
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| Hard to say....I wear my ring always. I never take either of them off, unless I'm making meatballs. LOL! But you'd think that if she lost her wedding ring, she would have told you right away rather then wait for you to notice. And she didn't "lose" one but two of them. Just odd how that never came up in daily conversation ya know?But to play devils advocate, maybe she didn't want her rings in the way of her messing with pills and different chemicals/medicines. I know my rings are a smidge loose and they bother me when they wiggle around. BUT, I still never take them off. It's a sign of my marriage to my husband....and I want the whole world to know!I'm not saying her behavior is wrong. But it IS a little odd. And odd that she tells you she has admirers at work. Have there been any issues with you two lately? Like lack of lovin' in the bedroom? Or any reason to make her want to look elsewhere? (NOT saying she is, just asking for more info) |
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joes_remim
Joined: 08 Jun 2007
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Location: Boston
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| Posted: Fri Feb 22, 2008 1:06 pm Post subject: Wife not wearing ring? |
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| i have to wear mine if i don't i would loose it. |
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johnson7687
Joined: 24 Nov 2007
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| Posted: Fri Feb 22, 2008 1:34 pm Post subject: Wife not wearing ring? |
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buy to your wive at least 7 ring.... even if not made of gold! but that are so similar to weddings ring that also her will not see that are false.. so she has no excuses an have to wear it  |
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K
Joined: 12 Feb 2008
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| Posted: Fri Feb 22, 2008 2:01 pm Post subject: Wife not wearing ring? |
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| Maybe she could wear a weddig band around her neck by putting it on a chain. |
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Jude Carey
Joined: 12 Mar 2007
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Location: United Kingdom
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| Posted: Fri Feb 22, 2008 2:29 pm Post subject: Wife not wearing ring? |
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| I don't care if people don't wear wedding rings in that field of work. Is she so careless that she could lose both her rings, then maybe she's in the wrong field of work. She should have put them up and told you if the rings interfered with her work. She probably likes the attention and is afraid that if she is wearing her wedding ring she wont get that attention anymore. |
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JustWondering
Joined: 12 Feb 2008
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| Posted: Fri Feb 22, 2008 2:56 pm Post subject: Wife not wearing ring? |
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| I have not worn my ring in over 20 years, and i have always manage to stay faithful to my loving husband. I don't need a ring to tell me that i have been married for 27 years; my actions speak louder then words. |
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JospehineB
Joined: 02 Dec 2007
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| Posted: Fri Feb 22, 2008 3:24 pm Post subject: Wife not wearing ring? |
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| dont you trust your wife?the ring is just a symbol of your bond. what matters most is the true feelings in your hearts and minds...Ask her frankly and tell her your thoughts. |
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kahasadre
Joined: 21 Nov 2007
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Location: USA
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| Posted: Fri Feb 22, 2008 3:51 pm Post subject: Wife not wearing ring? |
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| my husband takes off his rings all the time me too but its normally because of work. we dont want to damage the rings. Here do this ...get her an "replacement band"...something not to expensive and see if she wears it. and even suggest she puts it on a necklace when she takes it off so she wouldnt lose it. see what she does. |
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JohnN
Joined: 22 Nov 2007
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| Posted: Fri Feb 22, 2008 4:19 pm Post subject: Wife not wearing ring? |
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| Did she come out and tell you she lost the rings or did you have to ask what happened to them? Has she had a sense of urgency to get them replaced? I wouldnt get too upset over this, but just to make sure she's not getting too wrapped up in attention she may be getting from work, take a look at if your relationship has become boring. Do something with her out of the ordinary and spice up your marriage. Sometime people like it when new people show interest in them. It makes them feel like they still "have it". So let her know that YOU think she still "has it"! |
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