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fbomonkey
Joined: 27 Dec 2007
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 Posted: Thu Jan 24, 2008 2:10 pm Post subject: Would I be wrong to stop let him be? |
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| I would think that you would be pleased that he has enough confidence in you to plan your own wedding. If that hurts you perhaps you're not ready, not mature enough, to enter into a permanent relationship and get married in the first place. |
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fedLoobioWnob
Joined: 10 Jan 2008
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Location: Georgia
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| Posted: Thu Jan 24, 2008 2:16 pm Post subject: Would I be wrong to stop let him be? |
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boys really don't care about that kinda stuff at least most of them..tell him you want his input.. otherwise everything is going to be pink  |
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FederiSandrol
Joined: 15 Jun 2007
Posts: 8
Location: Thailand
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| Posted: Thu Jan 24, 2008 2:22 pm Post subject: Would I be wrong to stop let him be? |
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| dont be hurt Ange...all my husband did was show up...trust me...the less he's involved the better...that way, its less things to fight over |
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FdfrthNery
Joined: 14 Oct 2007
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Location: USA
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| Posted: Thu Jan 24, 2008 2:28 pm Post subject: Would I be wrong to stop let him be? |
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| I've gotten to the point where I don't even talk to him about it any more. "Just give me the credit card, and I'll do everything!"... guess what... I've got the credit card.I know he loves me, but I don't think he really cares if there are roses or calla lilies on the cake, and if they are red, or burgundy. Those are small things to him, and while they are huge to us, he won't remember 5 min after he eats dinner if it was a NY Strip or Fillet Mignon. |
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FdfrthNery
Joined: 14 Oct 2007
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Location: USA
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| Posted: Thu Jan 24, 2008 2:34 pm Post subject: Would I be wrong to stop let him be? |
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| perhaps he's thinking more about the honeymoon than the ceremony.Seriously - think about this. All your obsessing and fuss about one day of your life together is going to send him running screaming into the night after calling the whole thing off. I suggest you cool your jets - big time.Ease up about the whole thing - all of it - I know this sounds cold, but truly, things will go awry, plans will fall through, things won't go the way you want - but in the end, what counts is the two of you pledging your love and your lives before God. The "special day" stuff is a bogus trap. Please don't fall for it. |
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FdfrthNery
Joined: 14 Oct 2007
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Location: USA
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| Posted: Thu Jan 24, 2008 2:40 pm Post subject: Would I be wrong to stop let him be? |
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| He probably isn't. Most guys hate planning stuff like this--although I am a woman, and I hate planning stuff like this myself (I just like to show up). If he really isn't interested, plan everything according to how YOU want. Don't even ask him for his opinion anymore. Just tell him to show up and look pretty for you. |
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fbomonkey
Joined: 27 Dec 2007
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| Posted: Thu Jan 24, 2008 2:46 pm Post subject: Would I be wrong to stop let him be? |
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| Guys are just like that. Don't take it personally. I felt the same way when I first began to plan my August 2008 wedding. My fiance is naturally very easy-going but somehow I still felt bad when he didn't offer suggestions or include his input in regards to our wedding. I eventually told him how I felt and he explained that he didn't say much because he agreed with most of my decisions. He was confident in my ability to pull things off because I am so creative and organized. He was afraid that he would mess things up and opted to stay out of the way. |
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FdfrtHhyu
Joined: 21 Nov 2007
Posts: 2
Location: USA
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| Posted: Thu Jan 24, 2008 2:52 pm Post subject: Would I be wrong to stop let him be? |
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| Well, that's how most men are. It's probably not that he doesn't care. He just maybe isn't into details or looking at a lot of different options before making a choice. My husband said he was just tired of wedding stuff all of the time. Find something that he'd take interest in. I gave my husband car rental, tuxedo and dj duties. He got into that. Other than that he really didn't care. The bottom line is that you'll probably end up doing most of the work and decision making yourself. I'm sure he's interested though. Good Luck. |
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FastInet
Joined: 24 Sep 2007
Posts: 13
Location: USA
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| Posted: Thu Jan 24, 2008 2:58 pm Post subject: Would I be wrong to stop let him be? |
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| Girl, my fiance was fell asleep in the craft store as we are picking out the flowers! Seriously, fell asleep with his mouth wide open, on the bench, in the vestibule! I felt so embarassed....And promptly took a picture of him with my camra phone ^.^ |
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feelayclablic
Joined: 16 Nov 2007
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Location: BM
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| Posted: Thu Jan 24, 2008 3:04 pm Post subject: Would I be wrong to stop let him be? |
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| I'm getting married in 5 months. When she asks me for my opinion, I tell her whatever she decides will be fine. Not because I don't care but because I know the wedding means a lot more to her than it will for me. I'm a guy. All I care about is marrying the girl I love. I want her to have everything else the way she likes. So don't be hurt by his answer. |
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