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FeatherboaGirl
Joined: 21 Jan 2008
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 Posted: Thu Jan 24, 2008 12:40 pm Post subject: Would I be wrong to stop let him be? |
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| I have so many ideas about our wedding and our dinner party but all he keeps saying is "Whatever you decide is what its going to be I'm ok with it" Why does that hurt every time he says that. I feel like he's not interested in the detail at all. |
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fbomonkey
Joined: 27 Dec 2007
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| Posted: Thu Jan 24, 2008 12:46 pm Post subject: Would I be wrong to stop let him be? |
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| he's not interested in the details, at all, he is a man; it's hurts because you are needy |
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fayruzina
Joined: 06 Dec 2007
Posts: 12
Location: USA
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| Posted: Thu Jan 24, 2008 12:52 pm Post subject: Would I be wrong to stop let him be? |
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| he is intrested but he wants what your want because he wants you to be happy with the results...=]....just try adn talk to him about it... |
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Fatima
Joined: 22 Nov 2007
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| Posted: Thu Jan 24, 2008 12:58 pm Post subject: Would I be wrong to stop let him be? |
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we say that because we want you to be happy.We might suggest something that may be stupid.Dont take it the wrong way.Hope this helps you out.I always ask my girl whatever you wanna eat whatever you wanna watch its always her way because I want to make her happy  Im Soft All these guys will be laughing at me now. |
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FederMarkovan
Joined: 23 May 2007
Posts: 7
Location: Czech Republic
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| Posted: Thu Jan 24, 2008 1:04 pm Post subject: Would I be wrong to stop let him be? |
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| Dont let it hurt you. He's a guy. He's not interested in the details. Just plan it the way you want it. Weddings are all about us girls anyway. My fiance is the same way. If i ask him to choose A or B he asks me which one i like and of course thats the one he picks. LOL |
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FdfrthNery
Joined: 14 Oct 2007
Posts: 10
Location: USA
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| Posted: Thu Jan 24, 2008 1:10 pm Post subject: Would I be wrong to stop let him be? |
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| He believed that you have good judgement, he trust in your choice. |
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FdfrtYhyu
Joined: 01 Dec 2007
Posts: 7
Location: USA
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| Posted: Thu Jan 24, 2008 1:16 pm Post subject: Would I be wrong to stop let him be? |
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| men don't usually care about the details of the wedding in fact when i got married my husband told me that all he needed to know was the date, and time and he would be there. and then he said that that girls dream about their weddings all of their lives, men just want to make their dreams come true |
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FastInet
Joined: 24 Sep 2007
Posts: 13
Location: USA
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| Posted: Thu Jan 24, 2008 1:22 pm Post subject: Would I be wrong to stop let him be? |
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| Sorry to say but he does not care. Most men do not, It hurts because you think he should care like you do but that does not happen often. Ask you mom or his to help or any close friend. |
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fedLoobioWnob
Joined: 10 Jan 2008
Posts: 3
Location: Georgia
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| Posted: Thu Jan 24, 2008 1:28 pm Post subject: Would I be wrong to stop let him be? |
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| He's not interested in the details at all...we only indulge that stuff EVER because it makes you happy. We wouldn't give a rat's a s s if the wedding dinner was held at Chucky Cheese; weddings are largely for the brides and we know it. We merely endure it...we really don't care. But we DO want you to be happy, and it's always been that way, so don't let it stress you out. Things are on target. Congratulations, and good luck. |
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fbomonkey
Joined: 27 Dec 2007
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| Posted: Thu Jan 24, 2008 1:34 pm Post subject: Would I be wrong to stop let him be? |
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| why be hurt, enjoy the time with some one who will enjoy the details. you made of honor, your mom or a wedding planner. and he is not interested. you may not like sports but are you going to pretend u do for him. |
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favoemuc
Joined: 02 Jul 2007
Posts: 18
Location: Ukraine
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| Posted: Thu Jan 24, 2008 1:40 pm Post subject: Would I be wrong to stop let him be? |
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| it's not that.wedding day is your day. nobody looks at the groom, really.it's your colors, your flowers, your choice.eventually... happens all the time.. no matter what he likes.. your taste comes first.dont stress on it..just enjoy it.. |
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favoemuc
Joined: 02 Jul 2007
Posts: 18
Location: Ukraine
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| Posted: Thu Jan 24, 2008 1:46 pm Post subject: Would I be wrong to stop let him be? |
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heheh, that's right...men! hihi... At least 'you' should have fun doing this!  Good Luck,p.s. Ask him if he is itrested on this or not, he would answer!//Maria<3 |
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feefCyclalP
Joined: 06 Dec 2007
Posts: 5
Location: Benin
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| Posted: Thu Jan 24, 2008 1:52 pm Post subject: Would I be wrong to stop let him be? |
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| I went threw the same thing when I was planning my wedding. Honestly I came to the conclusion they really don't care he loves you and wants to get married but could care less if you have lillies or tulips. Turn to your bridesmaids and maid of honor they are going to be a bigger help. Don't think it's a lack of love for you it's not it's only that they don't understand what the big deal is.Put him in charge of a few things to lighten your load, like the style of their suits and the music or something to that effect.And remember to have fun this is going to be the best day of your life congratulations. |
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Fcker
Joined: 26 Aug 2007
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| Posted: Thu Jan 24, 2008 1:58 pm Post subject: Would I be wrong to stop let him be? |
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| Most men simply aren't as invested in the wedding details as the woman is. Frankly, he's probably just thrilled that you said "yes" and he'd be satisfied with anything you decide. Just keep him posted on the decisions and let him know that if there's something he truly hates, he can speak up about it. |
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Fasterbivers
Joined: 17 Nov 2007
Posts: 6
Location: USA
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| Posted: Thu Jan 24, 2008 2:04 pm Post subject: Would I be wrong to stop let him be? |
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| he's not interested in the details....he's a guy, it's typical... of course, you want to know he's as excited about it as you are and i'm sure that he is, but he's not going to care what color the flowers are, what the invitations look like, if the bridesmaids are in cobalt or powder blue, if the centerpeices are candles or flowers.... when do guys ever really care about things like that???? your a girl, you've probably been thinking about weddings for years now, even since you were a kid... he probably started thinking about it more in terms of marriage then the wedding, and probably a lot more recently!i wouldn't take it personally.... you have your girls to share all that stuff with, and i'm sure if you limit his involvement to the bigger stuff he'll be more enthused about it... maybe get him in with the music if he's into music, or the food if he well likes to eat... the bigger stuff like that... |
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